Benn Rosales

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Founder of Agent Genius Magazine, national real estate opinion site. Benn’s focus has always been improving the consumer experience by working to improve the real estate industry, so needless to say he’s not scared of controversy, standing out or making an impact. He dreams of a life where sleep isn’t physically necessary and a Starbucks barista makes house calls in order to focus more on helping you and your startup to capture and build on the moment.

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Pessimism – Your New Paradigm?

21 responses to “Pessimism – Your New Paradigm?”

  1. Clint Miller

    Alright! Benn…Genius! That is all I gotta say. Sheer genius! Awesome post!

  2. Judy (realestatechick)

    Brilliant – simply brilliant.

    Just yesterday I used the word “dinosaurage” when describing most of our real estate brethren. It never ceases to amaze me that we, as a profession, refuse to adapt our business as times change. We see all around us the remnants of businesses that haven’t (think travel agents) and the flourishing of businesses that have (think Zappos). Yet we find it easier to sit back, point fingers at the world and whine. Why is that? We all know how it turned out for the dinosaurs….

    Thanks again for putting into words what I have been thinking. Now let’s see who we can impact with those words!

  3. Ed Gory

    Absolutely spot on, Ben. It’s very Darwinian here in California where I am as well. Survival of the fittest — those who can’t adapt to new environments will soon be out of the business. It’s about time for some of them.

  4. Elaine Hanson

    Your insight cuts straight to the heart of the reality of our business. Conditions change, industries change, and we need to change, adapt and move ahead of the pack in order to thrive.
    Beautifully said, Benn!

  5. Ken Brand

    The North Star speaks. Thanks.

  6. Michelle DeRepentigny

    What a fabulous options list. When the market was good I had 3 nametags and assorted “house” jewelry – I now have 5 nametags and wear one everywhere but church :) this leads to me getting to talk about real estate in some unusual but great places, most recently the bathroom of a restaraunt while washing my hands – that contact is now looking at properties that will make good rentals for her.

    I consider myself open for business and want everyone to know it.

  7. Steve Beam

    YES! Finally! I love it! I too left the damn office for peace and quiet at home. We have brokers in there that when you talked to them it made you want to burn your license get a gun and shoot yourself or at least jump out a window. Doom and Gloom! I hated it and it was he same people standing the same spot every day talking the same crap. Drove me crazy.

    At my home office I can do more in 2 hours than I could all day at the office.

  8. Missy Caulk

    (((clap, clap, clap)))
    I read every word. I just heard on FOX that funeral directors are recession proof. Maybe some agents could get a job there.

    When I got licensed in 1995, I was told Realtors were extinct and that the internet would replace us. It didn’t stop me then, I was one of the first to get a Realtor dot com web site. LOL

    …and the rest is history. Now I blog on AG and love my life, it gets better and better. Markets change, technology changes and I am no spring chicken but I continue to grow.

    I have talked my heard off to agents about blogging, social networking,following up leads, but like you said they would rather poo poo an idea than try something new.

  9. Ken Brand

    Hope this isn’t in bad taste or etiquette, if so, let me know and I won’t do it again.

    But, Missy Caulk (see comments above), your comment about the Undertaker is hilarious…maybe they’re recession proof because they have an endless lumbering river of embalming clients….all the agents who die from poo-pooing new ideas and clinging cramped to the dusty past and rusted by-gones.

    My 3 cents.

    I feel you. Metaphorically of course.

  10. Lisa Sanderson

    that was beautiful, man! ((hug))

    I am pretty sure I need to read it again but first I wanna post it for my mates. You *are* the original Genius.

  11. BawldGuy

    Benn — Don’t know where to start.

    90% of agents find it difficult to adapt to rainy days much less market changes in real time. Let’s forget about those folks, OK?

    That leaves the folks who’re genuinely working hard, trying to work smart, and showin’ up every day.

    I’ll speak only for myself when it comes to adapting to reality in real time. My firm is now virtually national in scope. Between seminars, sales, and where our clients live, fully 98% of our business originates outside of San Diego.

    Why?

    Because at the end of ’03 I saw what I thought was a ‘crossing of the line’ in SD when it came to income property values. I knew there was no way I could continue to look investors in the eye while telling them that $550K 46 year old duplex was a solid investment.

    Inside of six months I was set up in two different regions outside of CA. The clients were balky at first, but the numbers were the numbers, so most of them signed on.

    What you’ve done, and are doing again now is the same thing. It’s adjust/adapt or put in your app at Von’s.

    I’ve never understood the whole office thing. Ironically, because of the 90% mentioned above, even in good times they’ve got a myriad reasons for their inability to walk and chew gum simultaneously. Frankly, I’m immune to that type. I make fun of ‘em, which they quickly tire of.

    As usual though, you hit the real nail on the head when you said agents need to be in front of folks a lot more than they are. Belly to belly has no peer as a predictor of success in real estate. You’ve proven that in your practice from Day 1.

    Adapting to a changing market is one thing. Capitalizing on the changes is a whole different book. Your ‘finger on the pulse’ is nothing if not unadorned substance in it’s purest form. Call it what you want, but the never ending give and take of belly to belly has no substitute that I’ve ever encountered. A lotta wannabes, but nothing with legs.

    What you’ve espoused here is — paying attention, being a real pro, avoiding the Wussies Are Us parties and embracing potential prospect rejection, all while appearing as if their IQs possess three digits before bumpin’ into that pesky decimal point.

    Pessimism? It’s the disease that takes over when one decides reality is too tough for them to handle.

    One of your best efforts, Benn. Enjoyed the hell out of it.

  12. Tom Vanderwell

    Benn,

    Bawld Guy twittered about this and since I listen to everything Jeff says (and believe most of it), I came over and read it.

    Very well said, very too the point, and I’m working on exactly that type of adjusting and adapting right now.

    Thank you!

    Tom

  13. MaryAnn Ead

    Thank you for this post. I keep trying. My broker is getting depressed and i need to back away from that. it’s contagious.

  14. Russell Shaw

    Pure Genius. Perfect. Truly great post, Benn.

  15. Jeff Bogert

    Awesome, Awesome post. Over the past month I have made a conscious decision to reduce if not completely eliminate my time in the office. Having my time sucked with “tech support” for other agents looking for a favor to people seeking anyone out for their pity parties is has become too much. A remodel of my area of the office has force me out the last couple of days and I have to tell you it has done wonders for my attitude.

    This morning I drove a neighborhood for a client I am working with and came upon a FSBO. The home is one of my favorite in that area and the owner was out front. We got to talking about the market and she regaled me with tales of Realtor calling her to make her feel stupid for going it alone, etc. Long story short it was a great conversation with a motivated seller who most likely will list after the holidays. I would never have run into her if I was hanging around after the office meeting listening to the tales of woe that have become the incessant hum there.

    One more reason to get that home office finished.

    Thanks again

  16. teresa boardman

    I think I am about a year ahead of you on this. It gets a little harder the second year than it was the first but the emotional roller coaster and the pessimism go away. I guess they kind of have to or it wouldn’t be possible to stay in business.

  17. Jonathan Dalton

    Between this and our conversation today, I can see one change coming with the blog. I’ve avoided rentals but in the big picture, they may not be the worst idea.

    At the same time, I’m actually looking to find a way to increase conversion on my lead flow by passing off leads – something I’ve not done this year in the interest of holding onto the 75% and not the 25%.

    Sadly, I agree with Jeff in that it’s not in the nature of most agents to change on the fly. Some were still looking for ways to capitalize on Canadian interest into August and September when the window had started to close.

    What now? Bank owned homes, short sales, etc. I’m probably guilty of being late to the short sale part, but this window will be open for a bit.

  18. Paula Henry

    Benn – I was here last week and didn’t take time to comment. Now, I have reread the whole post and have to say – you have hit the nail on the head. Excellent!

    I do have an office for my assistant and buyer agents who want to go there – personally, I stay away as much as possible. There are way too many negative people. At first I couldn’t fgure out why I didn’t like the office, then, it hit me – the presence of negativity was forceful, with way too many agents looking for the rosy path that was yesterday.

    I have been busy, why – I learned short sales a while back and continue to educate myself on the changes happening within the short sale business. Nearly half of my sold listings this year have been short sales, while the agents in the office say, “not for me”. They would rather sit on an overpriced listing than find a new way to do businesss.

    We have to stretch ourselves and that’s where many agents fail or fall.

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    That post is PERFECT!!

    I have been going on bear forums and all these people do is complain!

    Same with my office. The complainers disappear and thats a good thing.

    Positive things happen to positive people and Fate favours the Brave!

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